FREE MATERIALS

Safe Childhood
and Adolescence

Free materials for caregivers — to understand and support children and adolescents, both typical and neurodivergent.

You do not need to be certain in order to ask for help. It is not the family's job to investigate, gather proof or work out what happened. It is the family's job to protect and to seek support — and how the adults respond in the first days carries enormous weight in what follows.

These materials were written for that moment. They are free, can be printed and shared, and include humanised listening from the perspective of the Greenspan Floortime Approach®: before asking a child what happened, you have to know whether she can, at that moment, answer.

Child self-protection

“Don't talk to strangers” is one of the least protective things we say. In most cases of violence against children, the person responsible is someone the child knows. These three booklets do not teach fear — they teach a child to recognise situations, to listen to her own body and to tell.

AGES 3 TO 6

My body, my rules

A story with Tuca the armadillo, to read together with an adult.

  • The swimsuit rule, with the correct names
  • The warning in your tummy
  • Surprise vs. a secret that weighs
  • The hand of safety: five adults
  • Colouring activities and a signed agreement
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18 pages · A4
AGES 7 TO 10

Mission Red Light

Learn to read the signals — on the street, at school, at home and in the game.

  • Green, amber and red signals
  • The 7 red flags in game chat
  • The family code word
  • What to shout in the street, and why
  • Quiz and word search
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20 pages · A4
NEURODIVERGENCE

Every child, a plan

Self-protection, crowded places, wandering and crisis management.

  • Autism, Down syndrome, ADHD
  • Crowded places: preparation and protocol
  • Wandering and crisis management
  • Asking for help without speech
  • Forms to fill in and cut out
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21 pages · A4

The booklets

No legislation from any particular country — with a page to write down your local services.

BOOKLET 1

When a child has been hurt

For families of children who have experienced violence.

  • If she tells you something
  • What not to do
  • If the child does not speak
  • Humanised listening
  • Day-to-day care
  • Local contacts page
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A4 · print ready
BOOKLET 2

In the middle of it

For families in a difficult separation or custody dispute. It takes no sides.

  • What hurts the child most
  • What to do instead
  • If you suspect violence
  • What a therapist can and cannot do
  • Local contacts page
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A4 · print ready
BOOKLET 3

When the sign becomes the diagnosis

Recognising indications of violence in neurodivergent children.

  • The question that cuts through
  • Signs that deserve attention
  • What is not a sign in itself
  • If you suspect: step by step
  • How to record
  • How the child should be heard
  • What this asks of therapy
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A4 · print ready
BOOKLET 4

Body, privacy and autonomy

Sexuality and neurodivergence, from childhood to adolescence.

  • Two different questions
  • Education about the body is protection
  • Self-stimulation: what is expected
  • Rule out a physical cause first
  • What to do and what not to do
  • Privacy in daily care
  • Puberty and adolescence
  • Guidance for schools
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A4 · print ready
BOOKLET 5

It's not just teasing

Bullying, cyberbullying and inclusion of neurodivergent children and adolescents.

  • What bullying is and isn't
  • Why they are targeted more
  • Signs it is happening
  • Cyberbullying: what changes
  • What the family should do
  • If your child is the one doing it
  • Inclusion is what prevents it
  • For schools
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A4 · print ready
BOOKLET 6

When there are no words

Emotional distress in children and adolescents — how to notice, how to ask and what to do.

  • What makes it hard to see
  • Signs that something changed
  • How to ask
  • What to say and what not to say
  • If the child does not speak
  • Eating and self-injury
  • What protects
  • Looking after those who care
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A4 · print ready

For the adolescent

The other booklets are for the people who care for them. This one was written for the adolescent to read alone — and can be sent directly.

FOR TEENAGERS

You don't have to explain it properly

About not being okay, not finding the words, and managing to ask for help anyway.

  • If it's right now
  • Why it's so hard to say
  • When it's time to tell
  • How to start the conversation
  • If the adult doesn't take you seriously
  • When it's a friend who tells you
  • If it's about food, or self-injury
  • Where to look
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9 pages · A4

How to use them

Important

These materials offer guidance on care and communication. They are not legal advice and do not describe the laws or services of any particular country. Procedures for reporting and for hearing a child differ between countries — always check what applies where you are.

Paula Lins

Paula Lins

SPEECH-LANGUAGE PATHOLOGIST · CRFa 1-13828 RJ

I am a speech-language pathologist and the Official Representative of the Greenspan Floortime Approach® in Brazil. I have worked for years with child development, autism and family coaching.

Along the way one thing became clear: a child who cannot communicate cannot ask for help. Functional communication is not only a therapeutic goal — it is a protective measure.

That is where Na Rota do Afeto came from, the social arm of Instituto Greenspan Floortime Brasil. With it I have taken training and protection materials to Nigeria, Marajó and the Upper Amazon. In all of them, the same gap: protection materials never arrive — or arrive in a language nobody there speaks.

That is why everything here is free, in three languages, and made to circulate.

Founder of Instituto Greenspan Floortime Brasil and of Interagindo — Espaço do Desenvolvimento, in Rio de Janeiro.